{"product_id":"0757306098-emotional_sobriety_from_relationship_trauma_to_resilience_and_balance","title":"Emotional Sobriety: From Relationship Trauma to Resilience and Balance","description":"\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eDo you use substances or engage in compulsive activities to regulate your mood? Do you reach for something sweet, a couple of drinks, or a pack of cigarettes after a difficult day because you can't unwind without them? Do you race to the stores to spend away the day's frustrations or run around in circles taking more time to get less done? If these self-defeating habits sound familiar, Emotional Sobriety will shed light on why and how these coping mechanisms threaten your health and impact resilience. \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eWhen we manage the stresses of the day by turning to outside 'mood managers' such as food, sex, work, shopping, gambling, drugs, and alcohol rather than healthier forms of 'self-soothing,' it is because we lack emotional sobriety--the state of processing our thoughts efficiently to bring our emotions into balance, says bestselling author and renowned addictions psychologist Tian Dayton, Ph.D. In her latest book, Emotional Sobriety, Dr. Dayton shares \u003cstrong\u003ecompelling, honest tales of her life experiences and case studies of those she has counseled.\u003c\/strong\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIllustrating that emotional sobriety is a mind\/body phenomenon, Dr. Dayton includes ideas on how to attain emotional literacy--the skill of translating feelings into words so that we can use our thought processes to understand and bring our emotions into balance--and how to calm the limbic system so that we can actually experience what we're feeling. The limbic system processes our emotions and governs our mood, appetite, and sleep cycles. Repeated painful experiences, in childhood or adulthood, over which we have no ability or sense of control or escape can oversensitize us to stress andderegulate our limbic system. Dr. Dayton shows you through concrete examples how to bring your emotions and thoughts into balance and learn healthy ways of 'self-soothing' to relieve symptoms of depression, anxiety, rage, and the desire to self-medicate.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e Dale Farris - Library Journal \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eClinical psychologist Dayton (executive editor, \u003ci\u003eJournal of Group Psychotherapy\u003c\/i\u003e; \u003ci\u003eTrauma and Addiction\u003c\/i\u003e) provides a superb analysis of and a fresh perspective on how to gain emotional stability after growing up with the trauma of addiction, abuse, and family dysfunction. While sharing her own experience with alcoholic parents, Dayton interweaves extensive neuropsychological research on how trauma chemically alters the brain with findings on how to undo the damage of trauma and reverse the negative effects trauma has on relationships and behavior. Basing her material on clinical data that reveal how emotions impact thinking more than the reverse, Dayton describes \"emotional sobriety\" as the ability to keep emotions, thoughts, and actions in balance. The numerous succinct chapters range over the impact of relationships on emotional development, how children's emotional stability can be jeopardized when exposed to trauma or abuse, and the impact of high stress, anxiety, depression, anger, grief, and fear. Dayton ends the work with solid information on finding forgiveness, setting up a healing network, and developing emotionally healthy habits. Broader than Janet Woititz's \u003ci\u003eAdult Children of Alcoholics\u003c\/i\u003e, this guide will help individuals in recovery from a variety of dysfunctional family systems and helping professionals working with that audience. Highly recommended.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\u003cp\u003eCategories:\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul class=\"category-tree\"\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eSelf-Help\u003cul class=\"category-tree\"\u003e\u003cli class=\"category-tree\"\u003eGeneral\u003c\/li\u003e\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\n","brand":"Health Communications Inc","offers":[{"title":"Used - Very Good","offer_id":49013680210110,"sku":"0757306098-3","price":16.47,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0640\/9689\/5166\/files\/61xiKhNwZDL.jpg?v=1789405395","url":"https:\/\/shop.sustainablebooks.com\/products\/0757306098-emotional_sobriety_from_relationship_trauma_to_resilience_and_balance","provider":"Sustainable Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}